All inclusive resorts in Mexico that don't feel like a booze cruise

My husband and I are celebrating our 10 year anniversary and want to just turn our brains off at an all-inclusive in Riviera Maya or Cancun.
The problem is we aren’t big drinkers and we hate the loud pool party/DJ vibe. Are there any adult-only resorts that focus more on relaxation, good food, and quiet beaches?
Are there also some TourRadar tours that some of y’all can recommend?